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The Alpha Male Creates His Own Luck
Ever seem to notice how unsuccessful people might call a successful person lucky. Or an under-confident man might look at a guy with a hot girl and say he is so lucky. Did you ever think that these successful people might be creating their own luck? Saying someone else s good fortune is just [...]
Money and Confidence
Becoming an Alpha Male and increasing your income are directly related believe it or not, because when someone has a steady income it shows control over their life, and control over their life is exactly what makes an alpha male an alpha male. I know you are probably thinking that of course it is really easy to [...]
How to Have the Best Sex Ever
As far as the entire process of sexual intercourse with your wife or girlfriend is concerned, this is actually the easiest thing to do. If you’ve done everything else correctly up to that point, she’ll be massively aroused and practically begging you to “pound me hard!” So you just put in your penis and thrust [...]
Beta Male Traits and Characteristics
August 6th, 2011 
admin If you are reading this article then I assume you think you have in some way, characteristics that could be interpreted as something that a beta male would do. Here we are going to go over some things that you may or may not find are things that you do. I don’t want to waste your time so let’s get started.
Self Pity- The first characteristic we are going to talk about is self-pity. In recent years the self-pity crowd has really grown in numbers and it is really interesting to see. The beta male is someone who lets life get them down, the type of person who rolls with the punches, then goes home and complains about having to roll with the punches. To erase this trait you need to do two things, first understand that life is unfair and having things go nothing as you planned is completely normal. Think about people you know who are constantly complaining about how life is treating them, the funny thing is a lot of these times the people will know what they have to do to get better! I know you have that friend that is like “I have to get off my butt and get a job and everything will get better” then you see them a year later and they haven’t done anything to get there but can still complain about their current situation. DO NOT BE THAT GUY. The second thing you can do is to try really hard not to complain and see that bad side of things. If you meet an alpha male you are never going to hear about how hard their life is.
Constantly Trying To Please- The second major trait of the beta male is that they are always trying to please. This could be anyone from their mother to the drive thru guy when they go out to eat, no matter who it is they are always trying to please them. The beta male might say something like “ I hate conflict,” which is the worst mentality possible to become an alpha male because you are going to come across conflict in life and trying to avoid it is weak and people will recognize that. I am not saying here that you need to go and get in a fight but you do need to be straightforward and honest with people and don’t be afraid if they are disappointed or disagree with you.
Avoiding- The beta male is more or less defined by this one trait. Avoiding is something the beta male does best because they have spent years learning how to fly under the radar and staying away from conflict. This is similar to procrastination but on a larger scale. The beta male procrastinates but also avoids anything that might make him uncomfortable, if boss told the beta male next time he sees him they need to talk then the beta male will hide and try to avoid putting themselves in an uncomfortable situation. The alpha male tackles all problems head on because he knows that avoiding things is a waste of time and takes away from time he could be doing other more productive things. If you have problems in your life that you have been putting off, take care of them! You will be surprised how good you feel when you start to take some of the weight off your shoulders that you carry around for no reason.
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Improve Self Confidence
August 6th, 2011 admin I want to talk a little bit about self confidence. Self confidence comes from the way you see yourself and the way others see you. You can always tell successful people because they show more self confidence than people who are afraid to face their fears and move forward. First lets talk about how you can build self confidence.
To understand how to build self confidence we have to understand what it is to be a confident person. A confident person takes responsibility for their life and understands that they are in control of it and it is their responsibility to make it how they want it. Confident people can accept other people’s viewpoint without getting emotionally involved showing a balance in emotions. They also give themselves the gift of positive self-talk, or letting themselves know that they are capable of whatever they want. You must also follow the same rules if you also want to be confident. Instead of beating yourself up over mistakes just think of this moment right now as a clean slate and have a positive outlook going into the future.Click Here for to get more tips and tricks on being confident.
Think of this moment right now as a chance to change your life by demonstrating more confidence in your day to day life. It is empowering to think you can just put all the negative behind you and move forward and have a positive outlook on things. There’s no need to put people down or try to cause others pain because you have low self esteem, feel good about yourself and make others feel the same way and you will be surprised how far it goes.
The number one thing I can tell you about improving confidence is that you have to set realistic goals and do not tear yourself down for every mistake. Picture yourself as the confident version of yourself and imagine how that person would act and try to think about that in your day to day life. If you have debts set realistic goals on how to achieve them so you don’t just feel down all the time thinking about them. Just think of all the random people who came from backgrounds of nothing to come forward and have incredible wealth and happiness in their lives so there is no reason you cannot have the same thing. Live in the moment and pay no attention to people who create negative energy or want to just put people down all day for living their lives. These people are the best thing to cut loose if you want a happy life because their unhappiness will linger around you.
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Body Language Basics For Seducing Women
June 27th, 2011 admin Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).
You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.
Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.
Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out my site: guygetsgirl.com).
Body language basics:
1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile 
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
4. Gesticulate with open palms
You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!
Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.
It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively.
Those are the basics of body language, if you’d like to learn more visit Tiffany Taylor’s site by clicking here, Take action and change your life!
How to dress to attract women
June 19th, 2011 admin ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you’d be surprised by how many men don’t understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true — first impressions really do count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies.
If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.
It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can’t stress this enough — always try to look your best.
Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.
Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S?
Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men’s magazine’s and imitate the styles you see there — most women don’t really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don’t have to spend the Earth on clothing.
Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.
Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good – you feel an instant attraction even though you don’t know her – well, that’s how women feel too.
Wear a good-quality cologne, but don’t spray too much.
One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists — maximum. You don’t want to smell too overpowering.
I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here’s a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won’t find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is…
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Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’
June 10th, 2011 admin There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.
This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.
However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and “win” you back.
- Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.
- Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing and joking.
- When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her friends more than her.
Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!
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June 9th, 2011 admin 
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Questions that have confused us guys for years are finally answered, like:
- What women think when we approach and start talking to them and how we can use this information to our advantage.
- The things girls REALLY care about most – not good looks or fast cars.
- How to create sexual chemistry with a woman without being arrogant or the nice guy that always finishes last.
The GuyGetsGirl guide is ever expanding and currently stands at three thick, information packed volumes. Each one covers the attraction, seduction and dating game in detail and describes everything us fellas should and shouldn’t do to be successful in the field.
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